Tuesday 18 October 2016

can toddlers see ghosts



Can Toddlers  see Ghosts



A few nights ago I was lying on the bed  talking to my daughter  we were facing each other.  Suddenly I felt as though someone walked into  the room.  I lifted my head looked towards the door.  The door had not been open , I looked around the room  and saw no one.   There was no one there.  I told myself there was no one in that room besides my 3 year old and  I, yet I felt as though there was someone standing  just behind me. That presence felt so strong. But, I knew there was no one.

After almost two minutes my daughter looked up over my head  lifted her tiny little hand and pointed in that direction.  I instantly knew what was happening.    I had lost two very important people in my life.  The  first was my mother  it was 10 years ago. She went to sleep and when she woke up she could not move.  Doctors could not tell exactly what had happed to her except that the vessels in her head were all swollen .  She could not walk, get off the  bed or speak  , after 6 weeks she passed away.  She never got to play with her granddaughter.   My second loss was my most beloved nephew. I loved him like he was my own son.  He died in a car accident he drove on the road and crashed into an  excavator that was parked on the side of the road. 22nd July 2013.   The loss was painful .  My daughter was born a few months after, that same year.

After they died I had felt and heard there presence every once in a while  but I never saw them.  When my daughter  I knew she had seen on of them.  I had calmly gotten up and looked around and assured her that every thing was ok and there was no one there anymore.   When I looked at her face she did not look terrified or scared  perhaps because I was there with her and I  tried not to panic.

The next morning I asked her who did you see a boy or a girl. She said ``a boy``.  I asked her ``  was he a big boy or a little boy`` she said a big boy``  That was all I need  to her know.  I knew it was my nephew .  I assured her that if she saw him again she need not be scared.  He just wanted  to visit.


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